Wednesday. Hump day. Just seconds after my eyes shot wide open to the sound of my dreaded alarm clock, thought of the approaching Easter long weekend lightened up my mood, even if just ever so slightly. Today’s also 420. “Not all that bad”, I tell myself. A tiny wave of euphoria begins to flood all over.
As fast as it came, its as if someone pulled the plug. The happiness is draining away. 8:47AM… stuck in morning traffic with thirteen minutes to make it on time; starting to worry. 10:07AM, sitting here blogging as I stare defeatedly at the list of articles that needs to be composed before day’s end. Uh-oh.
Happiness is truly a fleeting moment. Temporary. Passing. Perishable. It is genuinely unbelievable how much time and effort each of us as individuals spend chasing after this momentary gratification. Holding onto “feel-good” appears to be impossible. Recall the last moment you were happy. Now fast-forward half a day. Were you still as happy? Maybe. Now flash again to the next. Regardless of how good you were feeling the day before, undoubtedly that feeling have diminished when you awoke the next morning. And it’ll keep dwindling till it subsides. Till that happiness is just a memory, serves as nothing more than a reminder – the actual feeling has already expired.
A wise acquaintance of mine once said: “happiness won’t ever hang around. The bad stuff however, does.” The amount of truth, or as I’d like to say, tr00f, in this statement is insurmountable. You can feel bad one day, and wake up the next feeling even worse. I wish the same could be said with happiness.
Now don’t get me wrong, the purpose of this post is not to bring you down and have you sulk. Rather quite the contrary. There are some things in life which provide constant sources of happiness. It’s the reason why people are materialistic. The reason why people look for a partner in life, get married, and hopefully, till death do they part. It’s the reason why we do a lot of the things we do. If there is something, or better yet someone that constantly brings you joy.. HANG ON TO IT. For these treasure chests are real treats in life… they don’t come around too often. The next time you’re feeling ‘way-up-there’, hang tight, and enjoy the ride.
Till next time,
rontizzam
“There’s a first time for everything.”
Firsts are special. Just like first-impressions stick around, so does the memory of your first boy or girlfriend, your first day of school, your first day at that job – let’s not forget the first time you did something which made you go… “woah.” Or the first time you drove a car; when you felt as free as the wind.
Rarely do we forget about our firsts. Somehow, for some reason, it leaves an imprint in our memory that just never seems to fade away. Nope, not even with time. Maybe it’s because human nature feeds off novelty, and firsts are nothing short of novel. Fresh. New. Unfamiliarity. We are programmed to enjoy new experiences. Try to recall some of your most enjoyable first-time-experiences. I bet you’ll flash-black at least half a dozen times before the end of this sentence.
This is my first ever blog post, and hence this topic. I’ve decided to listen to the man-behind-the-desk and start up my very own blog. It’s a first for me. Sad but true, everyday we all fall victim to routinization; day-in and day-out.. as if someone pressed the repeat button. Ask yourself how often you break out of the rotation and truly attempt uniqueness. I suspect this is partly why we find novelty so attractive, since it only comes around every now and then. If you’re like me, often hit by waves of redundancy, make today the day you brainstorm and try something new. Make it a “first”. Gain that first-hand experience. If you’re the dare-devil type, gun for something outrageous, make it your first AND your last – double the impact. Try something you’ve never done before. You’ll enjoy it, guaranteed. [ Leave a comment below and tell me your new “first” today ]
To finish off, I’m going to share with you one of my favourite songs. Uncanny how fitting this song is given everything you’ve just read. Enjoy
Rontizzam.